You've known the man in your life for like ages. You know that both of you are meant to be together. So, what's taking him so long to pop the question?
While you are confident he wants to marry you, you may never know what is going on inside his head. Maybe he is yet to select the perfect engagement ring. Or it may be that he is waiting for his vacation days to ask your father's permission. Or he may not be ready to get so committed yet.
It is true that you can't control what he is thinking about or what is going on in his head, but you can always find ways of coping. No matter how desperate you are to getting those wedding rings on your finger, you really don't want to sing this to him or show his friends how anxious you are.
This article is meant to show you ways you can cope with this painful truth.
How To Cope When He Doesn't Propose
Take Care When Talking to Your Friends- There's going to come a time when your friends bring up the topic of engagements and marriage, and the way you react to those questions will determine how stressful the discussion is for you. While it is tempting to say I don't know what is taking him so long. I feel like he'll never ask", redirect the question or act indifferent, by saying something like, "He'll propose when he's ready and the time is right". This is really important especially if your man is present. He may feel like he's on the spot and pressured for an answer. You will allow him some air for relaxation if you react more indifferently.
Desist From Bugging Him- Nagging him about when he's going to propose is only going to create stress, and the more stress you put him through, the more confused or angry he is going to feel. You might just talk him out of proposing completely with your nagging. It is always better to allow a man some space for some thoughts. This will build a stress-free atmosphere you can both live on.
Don't Start Preparation For The Wedding- Almost every girl will want to take a sneak of what her weeding might look like, right? When you may feel better that your man hasn't proposed yet and may easily be tempted to start trying clothes and making arrangements, you may only be getting depressed. After all, all of the vendors, consultants, and boutiques are going to ask you two questions you just can't answer: where's your ring and when's the date?
Live for Now- You know he loves you and is going to present you with engagement rings and ask you to spend the rest of your life with him eventually, so why stress? Live for now. If your relationship needs sparks, don't obsess about a proposal; try something new together. Take a class, go on a picnic, or learn a new skill together.
If you find yourself struggling with the fact that your man hasn't popped the question yet, don't obsess about it. Use these tips to keep your stress level down and enjoy the dating life you have now, so you can truly enjoy your engagement later on.
While you are confident he wants to marry you, you may never know what is going on inside his head. Maybe he is yet to select the perfect engagement ring. Or it may be that he is waiting for his vacation days to ask your father's permission. Or he may not be ready to get so committed yet.
It is true that you can't control what he is thinking about or what is going on in his head, but you can always find ways of coping. No matter how desperate you are to getting those wedding rings on your finger, you really don't want to sing this to him or show his friends how anxious you are.
This article is meant to show you ways you can cope with this painful truth.
How To Cope When He Doesn't Propose
Take Care When Talking to Your Friends- There's going to come a time when your friends bring up the topic of engagements and marriage, and the way you react to those questions will determine how stressful the discussion is for you. While it is tempting to say I don't know what is taking him so long. I feel like he'll never ask", redirect the question or act indifferent, by saying something like, "He'll propose when he's ready and the time is right". This is really important especially if your man is present. He may feel like he's on the spot and pressured for an answer. You will allow him some air for relaxation if you react more indifferently.
Desist From Bugging Him- Nagging him about when he's going to propose is only going to create stress, and the more stress you put him through, the more confused or angry he is going to feel. You might just talk him out of proposing completely with your nagging. It is always better to allow a man some space for some thoughts. This will build a stress-free atmosphere you can both live on.
Don't Start Preparation For The Wedding- Almost every girl will want to take a sneak of what her weeding might look like, right? When you may feel better that your man hasn't proposed yet and may easily be tempted to start trying clothes and making arrangements, you may only be getting depressed. After all, all of the vendors, consultants, and boutiques are going to ask you two questions you just can't answer: where's your ring and when's the date?
Live for Now- You know he loves you and is going to present you with engagement rings and ask you to spend the rest of your life with him eventually, so why stress? Live for now. If your relationship needs sparks, don't obsess about a proposal; try something new together. Take a class, go on a picnic, or learn a new skill together.
If you find yourself struggling with the fact that your man hasn't popped the question yet, don't obsess about it. Use these tips to keep your stress level down and enjoy the dating life you have now, so you can truly enjoy your engagement later on.
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