Sunday, 29 April 2012

How To Keep Your Partner Attracted To You

By Oliver Preston


So you two have been dating for years, or even just months, now and you both naturally want to bring the relationship to the next level. Your question is, how do you do it? Of course, the answer to that is either you get married or start living together. However, more pressing question here is not "what do we do next?", but more of "how do we keep the attraction high?"


Practices That Will Keep You Attracted With Each Other


Attraction is such a big word because you may feel attracted to someone without feeling loved towards to the other person. But since you are in an intimate relationship with your partner, then do away with those lingering looks to other girls and concentrate on the one you are with. Kissing and hugging are two of the best ways to keep each other attracted to one another, so do not forget to shower her with lavish hugs and kisses.


Know how to fight. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. No matter how much you try to avoid fighting, you will still have disagreements along the way. However, the key is learning how to fight correctly. Do not throw verbal punches at each other as this surely will help you feel unloving towards your partner. Instead, focus on the issue at hand. Discuss it, but do not take things too personal to maintain that chemistry between the two of you.


Keep the physical attraction alive no matter how long you two have been with each other. The reason you two are together now is that you were physically attracted with each other. Therefore, you should try to look good for her even if you have been a couple for a long time now. In addition, get more physical with her by lavishing her with kisses and hugs. Sometimes, couples tend to just give each other a peck on the cheek when in fact, they could not get their hands off each other at the beginning of the relationship. Continue the physical connection and you will surely keep on igniting the fire of attraction.


Do not be too dependent on her. Have a life of your own. Just because you are a couple does not mean you have to do all stuff together. Instead, pursue your individual interests with passion in order for you to grow as an individual as well. This is very important because it will keep you interesting as a person and the more you will be able to share yourself with your partner. Besides, some women find it more attractive when they see their partner independent and achieving things on his own.


Ensure that you stay respectful of each other. In all relationships, it is important that the players always have respect for each other. The same is true for couples in romantic relationships. You have to keep on reminding yourself about the things that make her special in your eyes and readily tell her about them. It is like creating a mental list of what you like about her, and accepting her shortcomings as well.




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