You may possibly have already noticed that a lot of young people go to great lengths with their outfits, their makeup and their hair styles, but does that make them interesting? I suspect the answer can be that it makes them fascinating at a not very deep level. But are you seeing the real person or some dressed-up, made-up clothes horse?
The real attraction is the real person. What lies beneath the clothing and the makeup is what truly matters. That's the foundation on which long-lasting relations are based.
The question then is, how do you attract somebody that you like the outward appearance of without makeup and fashionable clothes? The answer is that you have to use your body, the whole thing. If you have been fortunate enough to have received any NLP training from a first class NLP Practitioner you will know it is your thoughts and feelings that are the root of good, long lasting relations.
The long-term objective of any relationship should be to build a friendship that will carry you though the unavoidable ups and downs that occur. And friendships are based mostly on exploring and developing each other's interests. You've got to be comfortable to give space to your special chum, you have got to be able to allow them to pursue some of their own interests that will not necessarily be that fascinating to you.
But still I haven't answered the primary question, how do you attract the person you wish to become friends with to start with? The answer is that you use your most powerful mate captivating weapon - you smile. The more that you put into the smile the sooner they will approach you and that of course includes relaxing your body to show that you are not worried about their approaching you. Nothing breaks down the barriers of getting to know someone than a nice warm smile that says, "I like you too".
The real attraction is the real person. What lies beneath the clothing and the makeup is what truly matters. That's the foundation on which long-lasting relations are based.
The question then is, how do you attract somebody that you like the outward appearance of without makeup and fashionable clothes? The answer is that you have to use your body, the whole thing. If you have been fortunate enough to have received any NLP training from a first class NLP Practitioner you will know it is your thoughts and feelings that are the root of good, long lasting relations.
The long-term objective of any relationship should be to build a friendship that will carry you though the unavoidable ups and downs that occur. And friendships are based mostly on exploring and developing each other's interests. You've got to be comfortable to give space to your special chum, you have got to be able to allow them to pursue some of their own interests that will not necessarily be that fascinating to you.
But still I haven't answered the primary question, how do you attract the person you wish to become friends with to start with? The answer is that you use your most powerful mate captivating weapon - you smile. The more that you put into the smile the sooner they will approach you and that of course includes relaxing your body to show that you are not worried about their approaching you. Nothing breaks down the barriers of getting to know someone than a nice warm smile that says, "I like you too".
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Imagine a precision instrument that records the actions, words and feelings of the best performers. Then download that data to a powerful decoder that analyses and codes the behaviour. Transfer the code to your personal control panel so that you can reproduce excellence at will. This is how NLP Techniques work. NLP Practitioner David Ferrers will show you how to build your own control panel during Business Coaching, or at one of his NLP Training workshops or during NLP Practitioner Training in India.
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